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How to attract women?

And what do women want?


A question is often asked by men, "What does a woman want so that I can attract her to me?" While women might seem like unfathomable characters to men, the reality is that there are certain things that should be relatively easy to follow. Yes, we are different, but why do men don't seem to get what is so obvious? (Related: Pheromones for attraction)

While different women might want different things and the degree to which they want certain things might vary, below is a list of things that I want and I know that I am speaking for a lot of women out there. If you pay attention to the following you will attract a lot of women without even trying. What you will see that in order to attract women, men should pay attention to the details. These are things that you might ignore thinking of them as less important but can make all the difference to us.


And men who are able to do that can charm any women and convince her to go home with him even if she has talked to him for two minutes while those that don't get this part right don't always get the girl or if a girl does end up with them by mistake she tries to find the nearest exit.





• The single most important thing a woman wants is to be physically desired by her man. I mean a man should compliment her when she is fully clothed as well as (maybe especially!) without clothing. Yes, we are a bit too sensitive about our bodies and appearance and never seem to like ourselves but when a man says that he does, there is nothing else that gives us as much joy. Not even shopping! Just kidding.


• The second best thing that we like is being touched all over with hands and lips. Yes, most men are not the cuddly type but they have to realize that this is very important to us. We love to be touched and hugged, whether you like it or not. If you don't like it, make an effort and eventually you will start to like it for the simple reason that someone you care for does.

• Never, ever criticize her looks in any way. Remember, what I said above? We are already very self-conscious about our bodies and often lack self-esteem. So when a man that we care about criticizes us, it is devastating.
• Learn to give before receive. Hold yourself till we "come" when making love. And when you take her from behind, be sure to caress her and say her name so she doesn't feel dehumanized. (Related article: How to please women orally?)

• Yes it is true that we get old and are no longer attractive. But remember that that a 40-year old body may not shine like a 20-year old body, but baby, we've got the moves down pat and are ready to use them! (Related article: How to please women?)
• Yes, I know men are visual creatures, but we all want to get what we want to get, and if your woman feels sexy with you, there isn't anything she won't do to please you.

• And believe me, we are loyal, one-man creatures. So we hate infidelity as much as you do.
• Now, people need to start talking to each other. The worst place to do so, though, is in bed, because that, no matter how gently you put things, it will be seen as criticism (I know from experience). This is not a case of making demands, but of sharing -- how can we two people get the most out of our physical love?

• And finally be curious about us and about the relationship. Get into the in the discovery mode. I love discovering what makes a man squirm and I feel great when I'm causing him to. Why don't you give it a try? Women will be attracted to you simply because you want to discover them.

*)By Anne Jackson

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